In my custom form a copy of form email is always sent to sender. I select "Field used as send to sender:" option "-none-" in the backend, but it sends the copy of email. Using aiContactSafe v.2.0.11.stable with Joomla 1.5.20.
In aiContactSafe v.2.0.6.c.stable there was option "Default" and it worked correctly.
Deactivate "Send message" from the email field parameters.
Alex Dobrin
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